Don't Get Me Wrong...

On the morning of our 9th wedding anniversary (2/1/11) as Sebastian came down the stairs for breakfast I wrapped my arms around him and said to Tom "this is the best thing that's come from this marriage"...then remembering that Sebastian came well before the actual "marriage" I corrected myself and said aloud..."well, he came before the marriage, but you know what I mean".I thought Sebastian had always known he was AT our wedding but I thought wrong. Don't get me wrong...I'm not ashamed of having him "out of wedlock", I had been married once before and it failed, miserably, so why on earth would I ever try it again? But this was news to Sebastian, it was really sort of comical, how genuinely confused he was. He truly did not understand HOW we had a baby without being married, he kept asking me over and over "how did you have a baby... when you weren't married"...guess I opened a can of worms there!

Anyway, that was the morning of our anniversary and the evening of our anniversary I was hit like a freight train with a nasty virus...so we'll be celebrating on Saturday (picker style), better late than never (just like our wedding!)...and to Tom I say:

Don't get me wrong

if I'm acting so distracted

I'm thinking about the fireworks

that go off when you smile

=)